Sex and intimacy are not one size fits all. Your sexuality is as unique as you are and deserves to be treated as such.
A challenge: If you do not respect your individuality, agreements you make are apt to be broken along with hearts.
A solution: Good agreements are the foundation of any relationship, personal or business. The first agreement you make is with yourself.
To Thine Self be True. Then you can keep your agreements with others.
Many individuals who enjoy an alternative lifestyle deal with the same difficulties that are typical in a traditional relationship only multiplied by the number of lover friends.
There can be a breakdown of communication, not speaking your truth, not asking for what you desire from your partner. Not making good agreements, not putting the primary relationship first. Not having safe sex agreements.
Where did you learn your rules of engagement? Are they working?
Whether you consider yourself polyamorous, a swinger soft or hard, married and open, or just beginning to explore opening your relationship, you can be honest without concern of being judged when you work with me.
Relationships can be complex. This applies to alternative lifestyles and traditional monogamy. I help you find solutions that simplify and deepen your relationships rather than add extra complexity to your life.
Everyone needs a helping hand at times, different reflections and multiple solutions. I hope to be that helping hand for you.